Parent Expectations
Parents, you are not only a supporter of your own child but a role model to them as well. Your actions reflect upon your child, his/her team and North District Flyway Soccer. We ask that you remember the training sessions and games are for the benefit of the player and the team, not for you. Encourage and support your child in meeting their soccer responsibilities.
Recognize that negative behavior toward players, coaches, and game officials will not be tolerated
It is understood that academics are the top priority but being a “student athlete” means the player is able to organize and prioritize both to miss neither
Parents will help the team and club provide a good learning environment for the players by positive encouragement at all times
Do not argue with the referee or the assistant referee’s
Parents will refrain from talking to the coach during games unless it is to point out an important safety issue
Manage concerns through the proper channels. First with the team coach and manager, then if needed with the select soccer coordinator
How to be a Good Soccer Parent
1: Cheer – Don’t Coach
Even if you used to play soccer or be a soccer coach, you shouldn’t try to be a soccer coach to your child during the soccer game. A huge part of soccer is for your child to communicate with one another and implement strategies that their coaches give them. The only voice for instructions should be from the team coach.
A parent’s voice cheering for players can help bring excitement and elevate players to perform better. Stick to positive cheering and cheer on the entire team, not just your own player.
2: Don’t Address Soccer Players on the Opposing Team
The rule to treat others how you want to be treated goes along with this tip. Especially young children who are still learning how to control their bodies and many fouls might be accidents.
If a player misbehaves it is up to the referee or the player’s coach to address this, not the parents of the opposing team. An unknown adult yelling at a child can be very intimidating and take away the joy of the game.
3: Do not Criticize the Referee
As a parent and a person, you should realize that the referee is a person and will make mistakes. If parents start to criticize the referee in a soccer game, it makes the soccer game more about the adults than the kids. Children are learning the referee is in charge of the laws of the game and coaches and parents need to lead them by example of being respectful to the authority.
4: Focus on the Benefits of the Soccer Game Rather than the Score
Playing on a soccer team will give your child a lot of benefits, but parents will oftentimes only worry about the number on the scoreboard. Although it’s natural to want to win and focus on the result of the soccer game, parents need to focus on the larger picture. If your child’s team didn’t win, how can they learn what their team needs to improve on? Soccer coaches talk about the development process with soccer players, and losing is part of that. If your child’s team always wins, their mentality will be less likely to be able to handle setbacks. It’s a big part of a child’s development as a person and as a soccer player.
5: Learn the Rules
Take time to understood the rules of a soccer game this way you can be more educated when you are watching the game.
Learning the laws of the game will also help parents explain to players why the referee made a call and help them understand and enjoy the game better.
Frequently Asked Questions
How old does my child need to be?
Starting at age 4, children are eligible to play.
What if I miss the registration deadline?
All registrations received after the deadline listed on the Registration tab will have an additional late fee and are subject to approval by the North District Flyway board of directors.
What is the refund policy?
The NDFSA will not issue refunds at anytime for any reason, please be sure that your child is committed to playing soccer.
Can siblings play on the same team?
If the siblings are within the same age grouping, we will place your children on the same team.
What do the children need for practice?
Wear shin guards and bring a soccer ball.
Bring a drink, preferably water.
No earrings, watches, bracelets or necklaces.
Soccer cleats are recommended but not required, other sport cleats must have the front center cleat removed. No metal cleats.
When will practices start?
Practice dates, times and places are determined by the Coach. Most practices begin in July Summer/Fall seasons and in August for seasons that begin later in August. Spring season practices will typically begin at the halfway point of March.
How long are practices generally?
The Coach will determine the length of time of the practices. Most practices will be be 1-2 hours depending on the age group.
What are the dates and times for the games?
Game schedules will be available online prior to the beginning of the season. U5-U8 games will run from the end of July through September. U10-U14 play mostly Saturdays with a few weeknights in the Kettle Moraine Soccer League. WYSA SeCL and High school aged teams play mostly Saturdays and Sundays. Games for U10 and above run from the end of August through October.
Due to the number of children we have in the North District Flyway Soccer Association we are unable to meet all special requests.
Get Involved with North District Flyway Soccer
Coaching
No experience necessary. Provide an environment that encourages good sportsmanship and increases players' excitement in the game. Coaches must pass a WYSA background screening. Contact NDFSA9@gmail.com with any qustions or if interested.
Referee
Paid for games refereed with a minimum age of 11, and no experience is necessary. Required to attend the Referee clinic. Please email NDFSA9@gmail.com with your email address and contact phone number if interested in reffing.
Concession Stand
Our Concession Stand is our league's sole source of fundraising and the profits have helped us keep our registration fees to a minimum.
Board Member
Be a decison maker and help to make this soccer league even better! Board members are always welcomed at any time before, during or after the season. Having the title of a Board Member is a great resume builder and can lead to a positive point of discussion during a job interview. Board members must pass a WYSA background check and be approved by the current board. Email ndfsa9@gmail.com or contact any current board member to find out more.
Please consider volunteering your time and efforts to help the league continue to running smoothly. We encourage more than one person to chair a position so if you have a friend consider bringing them along to help. Contact ndfsa9@gmail.com or any board member if you are interested.
